It’s not possible.
A crop is only as good as the integrity of each individual spear of corn.
If you’re not taking care of yourself, if you’re not making time for yourself, if you’re not paying ATTENTION to yourself, you CANNOT feed someone else anything of worth.
You can’t give love if all you’re filled with is self-hate or denial. You will give a sad imitation, all the while resentment, fatigue, envy, and bitterness will grow within you.
You deserve to treat yourself like YOU MATTER.
And the world needs you to show up as your best self.
We need you. And we can only have you AFTER you recognize that you need you, and act on it.